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Thursday, 12 March 2015

What's the position on caning?

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This post is about the cane, and we want your feedback and comments. 

When you are ready to cane a spankee, in what position do you like her to be?

Judging from videos, bent over, knees locked, touching her toes, is a popular position, but it is probably very different in the world of the Spankeefinder spankee, some of whom may find it difficult to hold the position.

What's best, feet together, or feet apart. And if apart, just how far. 

A spankee friend of The Roving Spanker, has always adopted a position which she revealed as having a number of properties that qualify as most effective. Of course, the concept of the 'ideal' position varies from spanker to spanker, with probable variations according to the spankee. However let's review this position more closely. She bends over, feet well apart, with hands resting on a low chair or table, some 12 inches or so from the floor. From previous examination, this position offers two advantages. The first is that the positioning of the legs, with feet well apart, both calf and thigh muscles are stretched, keeping the bottom firmly in position, with less scope for movement between strokes.The second advantage is brought about by the differences in muscle stretch between the feet-together and feet-apart position. With feet-together, the straight legs combined with body bend not only create the stretching of the calf and thigh muscles, but also tightening of both bottom and back muscles. In the feet-apart position, there is less stretching of the back muscles, but more tightening of the bottom muscles. As we all know, gentlemen, there is a noticeable difference in sound between a cane stroke landing on taut bare cheeks, compared to a more relaxed bottom. And a taut bottom ensures each stroke achieves the optimal effect and sensation for the spankee. Of course, there are many spankers out there who like a spankee to wriggle around between strokes, but the Roving Spanker finds wriggling bottoms disrupts setting up following strokes, and likely to lead to strokes landing off target.

Food for thought! 

If you have your own views on the subject, feel free to post them.

Wednesday, 28 January 2015

Party Time - 5th February

You may think Spanking Times are a new name in spanking parties, but Richard and Pete have been organising parties for many years. The Roving Spanker has attended several, and had a thoroughly good time 

Chloe in glowing form

Their next event is on the 5th February at 2.00pm, with the theme of The Golden Globe Awards. The delightful sisters Chloe and Candy will be in attendance, with a third girl to be named. The parties are located in Bedfordshire, just 45 minutes from London, by train, or a few minutes from J12 on M1, if travelling by car. Richard and Peter run small, friendly parties with the emphasis on glowing bottoms, fun and very good food. The website is
otherwise call 07594 054 306 ask for Pete or Richard. Or Email: for more information.

Candy - truly golden globes

Thursday, 22 January 2015

Party Time - 30th Jan

Spankeefinder's own Red is having a party on the Friday 30th Jan, from 1 - 5pm. With her will be the incomparable Jadie, with the famous sisters Chloe and Candy. Easy to get to location in West London, with good parking. Without doubt, four of the best party girls in the scene.

Red's previous parties have been well attended, and highly praised. 

For full details and contacts, click on Red, and take a look at the Party tab on her website.

Red - suitably reddened

Wednesday, 14 January 2015

2Kings Party - Maids in Trouble - Jan 28th

January 28th (Wednesday) at 6.00 Pm. Maids in Trouble” The first 2Kings switch party of the year, when the girls will be in “Maids” outfits, (well in them to start with), and plenty of bare bottom action will be on offer. Two very dynamic switch girls, Spankeefinder listed RED & ROSIE CLEOPATRA will be present, along with Mistress Xela to control the girls, while Nurse bendy and Sally will be on hand to assist in the mischief. This party will be in Stoke Newington

For further details of this and other parties go to 2Kings website.

Wednesday, 7 January 2015

Art of the Great John Tisbury

Here are a few bottom studies from the camera of John Tisbury. Further examples of his outstanding photography can be seen at

Friday, 12 December 2014

Office Dress Code

Pale Stockings

Tan Stockings

Black Stockings

Fishnet Stockings

Or Tights ....

Wednesday, 10 December 2014

2Kings Party - 30 Girls - Last Chance!

This is the last chance to grab the few places left for the 2Kings Christmas Party on the 17th. Full details can be found on the 2Kings website . Also see our previous post on this unique event.

Friday, 5 December 2014

The law has changed - but UK content only

Attending spanking parties and visiting spankees remains a completely legal activity under UK law. So gentlemen, carry on enjoying your favourite activity.

But, with the Audiovisual Media Services Regulations 2014 in force from the 1st December, all online and on-demand videos will be subject to certification by the Board of British Film Classification . Many activities, including spanking, caning, most bondage, and role-playing as non adults (ie school uniform) depicted in video content, is specifically banned. These regulations apply only to videos produced in the UK, content produced abroad and available on non-UK websites will not be affected. These regulations already affect DVD distribution in the UK.

With the banning of the distribution of moving images of spanking, how long will it be before those responsible for these new regulations try to ban still images of spanking?

We at Spankeefinder do not derive any income from the website or blog, and continue to fund the cost of hosting at our own expense, purely to support the UK spanking scene. 

In order to protect ourselves from the unwarranted interest of those who wish to ban still images showing spanking or school uniform, Spankeefinder will remove from the main website, and this blog, all content showing spanking, cane marks and bruises, and spankees wearing school uniform. We will also remove written content referring to 'school' role-play. Links to other websites are not affected, so spankees with their own websites will still have links just as before.

We will still be showing pictures of all our lovely girls in the spankee pages. Spankees can still offer role-play, but we will not be showing any material about school scenarios or uniform. 

Tuesday, 25 November 2014

Christmas Parties

There are a selection of parties on offer this December. Here is the list so far, with links for further detail. Many Spankeefinder listed girls can be found attending one or more of these events.

Bottoms Up   4th December in London

2Kings  17th December in London

We just loved the 2Kings flyer, so here it is:

Wednesday, 12 November 2014

Lillie Brookes - A fresh delight

The Roving Spanker recently had the pleasure of meeting the lovely Lillie Brooks , who is quite new to Spankeefinder listings. Lillie has a most attractive personality, a real pleasure to meet. Gentlemen, cast your minds back to youthful times, and remember the pleasures of introducing your latest girlfriend to the delights of spanking. Recall their wriggles after every stroke of a spanking? Each squeal of excitement at the feel of leather?

Well, Lilly was a charming reminder of those far off days. Her little movements and sighs of appreciation show how much she enjoys a good traditional otk spanking. And when it comes to implements, a firmly applied leather strap results in both chuckles of shock and spectacular wriggles of her bottom. And in case you're thinking this is just role play, trust the Roving Spanker's decades of experience, he knows when a girl is putting it on. No, Lillie is the genuine article.

However, if you're the sort of chap who likes to deliver a long spanking, strapping, and caning, then Lillie is not your girl. There are plenty of other super girls on the Spankeefinder site, who can take a variety of punishment levels, and indeed, the Roving Spanker has delivered such to several of our listed spankees.

Remember our golden rule: Be honest about what you want, and respect limits, And have great fun!